On Peter’s Mind: The Power of Follow-Up

Follow-up is one of the most underestimated skills in business—and one of the most powerful. Deals are rarely lost because of a bad first conversation; they’re lost because there was no second, third, or fourth. In a world where everyone is busy and distracted, the professional who follows up thoughtfully stands out as reliable, serious, and committed.

The purpose of follow-up isn’t to “close.” It’s to serve. It’s about adding value, answering questions, staying present, and building trust over time. Most opportunities require multiple touchpoints before someone is truly ready to act.

The best follow-up is personal, relevant, and helpful. Reference something specific from your last conversation. Share a useful insight, article, or market update. Ask smart, open-ended questions. The goal is to move the relationship forward—not just check a box.

Frequency matters. Early on, a follow-up every 5–7 days is reasonable. As the relationship matures, it may shift to bi-weekly or monthly. Consistency beats intensity. You don’t need to flood someone’s inbox—you just need to be steady and professional.

How do you stay top of mind without being annoying? Make it about them, not you. If every message is “just checking in,” you’ll lose relevance. If every message delivers value, you earn attention.

Over time, you’ll discover if it’s a real lead by their behavior. Do they respond? Ask questions? Share details? Take small actions? Interest shows up in engagement, not just words.

And finally—know when to let go. If you’ve followed up multiple times with no response, no movement, and no energy, respect your time. Follow-up is powerful—but focus is even more so.